5 Simple Lifestyle Changes to Help you Sleep

 
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So how did you feel when you woke up this morning? If you started the day feeling sluggish, bleary eyed and grumpy after a lousy night's sleep then you're certainly not alone. Incredibly, 37% of adults in the UK feel they're not getting enough sleep at night. 

Regularly suffering from poor quality sleep or insomnia can cause a whole host of health problems in the long term. Fortunately though, there are lots of simple changes you can make to help yourself drift off to sleep more easily at bedtime. Below are some ideas on how to make straightforward changes to your lifestyle in order to help you to get the quality sleep that you need at night.

Get on Top of Your Stress

One of the most common reasons for insomnia is stress and anxiety. If you lie awake at night worrying about work, kids, family, money or anything else then it's time to start managing your stress. 

First of all you need to identify exactly what it is that is causing you to feel stressed and worried. Is there anything you can do to take action on your problems? Can you get some help in reducing the demands that have been placed on you? Sometimes it helps to simply talk through your problems with a supportive partner, friend or relative. 

Learning some relaxation techniques can be extremely beneficial in helping to manage stress. I often work with my clients to introduce them to simple but effective relaxation techniques that they can use throughout the day or at bedtime to relax and be more in the moment. 

Cut Down on Food and Drink Stimulants

We need to be in a relaxed state in order to get good quality sleep but many of us get through our busy and demanding days with tea, coffee and sugary snacks then find it hard to switch off in the evening.

Try and avoid caffeine from 3pm onwards each day  to ensure that it doesn't affect your ability to sleep at bedtime. It's also a good idea to reduce your sugar intake and any nicotine consumption, especially in the evening, as these can work as stimulants too.

Don't be tempted to use alcohol to help you get to sleep in the evening as this can really affect the quality of your sleep.

Get Regular Massage Treatments

Among a whole host of other health benefits, receiving regular massage treatments has been shown to help with sleep problems and insomnia. It can help to reduce any muscular pain or tension that may be affecting your sleep, can reduce anxiety, increases feelings of relaxation and releases serotonin which the body uses to produce melatonin (the hormone responsible for telling the brain to prepare for sleep).

I often recommend aromatherapy massage for any of my clients that suffer from sleep problems as this way they get the added benefit of essential oils, several of which can be great for improving sleep. My article How to Sleep Better with Essential Oils explains more about which oils are beneficial for sleep.

Stick to a Bedtime Routine

Bedtime routines aren't just for kids! Having a regular, relaxing wind-down routine each evening can really help the body to 'switch off' and prepare for sleep. Try turning your gadgets off and instead enjoy some quiet time reading, soaking in a warm bath or practising a relaxation technique. For more help on this take a look at How to Sleep Better with a Bedtime Routine 

Make Sure your Bedroom is Sleep-friendly

Your bedroom should be a soothing, relaxing and comfortable place for you to sleep. If it's too hot or cold, filled with clutter or piles of paperwork that you've brought home with you this won't help your sleep.

Think of ways you can keep your bedroom clean, tidy and clutter-free. Some inexpensive storage solutions could help with this.

Try and maintain the perfect ambience for sleeping in your bedroom. The temperature should be comfortable (around 18° C for most people). You can use fans, ventilation or heating for this. It should also be kept as dark as possible. Blackout curtains, blinds or just an eye mask can help. If noise is a problem try using earplugs. 

If your mattress is more than 10 years old it could be time to replace it. You need to make sure your bed is comfortable and supports you correctly. Duvets and covers should all be the correct weight for the time of year to stop you feeling too hot or cold.

 

Making a few of these simple changes can really pay off when it comes to getting a more restful night's sleep.

Which of these changes make a difference to your sleep? Do you have any other great tips for a good night's sleep?

 

Please note - In no way is this information designed to take the place of professional medical advice. If you're continually struggling to sleep please seek advice from your GP.


I am the founder and owner of Calme Therapies, based in Colchester, Essex. I am a qualified aromatherapist, massage therapist and relaxation therapist and I specialise in working with clients suffering from stress and tension.

If you would like to find out more, make an enquiry or book a treatment please contact me.

 

How to Sleep Better - The Bedtime Routine

 
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If you have young children, the chances are you've put a fair bit of thought into their bedtime routine. It might include a warm bath, a bedtime story, a drink of milk, a favourite toy - or just about anything that gives you a chance to get them into bed and asleep without too much of a fight!

Day in day out you repeat pretty much the same routine with them. You may not love having to read the same story book yet again but the safe, familiar, calm routine is what (hopefully) helps them to wind down and get ready to sleep. For most parents, the time it takes is worth it if it helps their children to fall asleep more easily.

In stark contrast to this is our own night-time routine each evening. As adults, our bedtime routine often consists of switching the TV off, checking our phones one more time, brushing our teeth and getting into bed. Then we wonder why we don't sleep well.

In fact, just like our children, we can benefit hugely from a period of quiet wind-down time in the evening. We need a relaxing routine to help us transition from our busy, fast-paced days filled with stress, work, to-do lists, emails, phones and TV to the peace and calm that is needed to be able to get a good nights sleep.

So if your current bedtime routine involves pressing the off button on the remote then taking a last look at your inbox, here are some ideas on how you can incorporate a more relaxed wind-down routine into your evening. You may be surprised at how much it can benefit your sleep...

Try and go to bed at roughly the same time every night. It can be tempting to stay up later at the weekends but sticking to a regular sleep pattern can be beneficial.

Start your wind-down routine at least 30 minutes before bed. An hour is even better. 

During your wind-down time make sure you avoid all your tech including TVs, computers, laptops and phones. These gadgets can play havoc with your sleep patterns if you spend too much time on them in the evening. You can always record favourite programmes then watch them at a time which suits you better.

Avoid stimulants such as caffeine in the evening. In fact it's best to cut out all caffeine after 3pm each day. If you like to have a hot drink before bed why not try a warm, milky drink or chamomile tea which can be great for helping you to gently relax.

It's best not to eat a large meal too late in the evening as this can make it difficult to sleep. If you feel hungry try having a light snack. Something like wholemeal toast or cheese and oatcakes is perfect.

If anything is worrying you or playing on your mind find someone to talk it through with or write it down so you can look at it with a fresh mind the next day. 

Find some activities that help you to relax and unwind. Try reading a book (best to avoid the latest thriller if you're trying to relax!), listening to music or taking a warm bath. 

Use essential oils to help you relax after a busy day and sleep better. My article How to Sleep better with Essential Oils has lots of suggestions on which oils to pick and how to use them.

Try a relaxation technique to help you wind down and clear your mind. I often show my clients a progressive muscle relaxation technique which is perfect for use in the evenings. It involves tensing then relaxing various muscle groups in a set sequence and can be very effective for helping to clear the mind and reduce any tension before going to sleep. You could also try a guided visualisation designed to help you sleep. There's a huge range out there to download or purchase.  

 

So if you're having trouble drifting off at night why not give some of these ideas a try and have a go at building in a relaxing wind-down routine before bed. Sweet dreams!

 

Please note - In no way is this information designed to take the place of professional medical advice. If you're continually struggling to sleep please seek advice from your GP.


I am the founder and owner of Calme Therapies, based in Colchester, Essex. I am a qualified aromatherapist, massage therapist and relaxation therapist and I specialise in working with clients suffering from stress and tension.

If you would like to find out more, make an enquiry or book a treatment please contact me.

Create Your Very Own Relaxation Evening

 
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Lots of people have a favourite midweek night; pizza night, movie night, I’ve even heard rumours of child-free night courtesy of the grandparents (if you’ve managed to wangle this one then I salute you!). Well my chosen night is… relaxation night. In fact as a working mum with a hectic life and two small children in tow I’m not sure I’d be able to get through my week without it.

Often our idea of a relaxing evening involves a glass of wine in one hand and the TV remote in the other. And yes, we all need nights like this sometimes. But actually there is much more you can do to help yourself wind down after a busy day and experience a sense of deep calm and relaxation. 

So if you’re in the middle of a hectic week and you like the idea of a cheap, easy way to enjoy an evening of relaxation and pampering then here are a few ideas to get you started.
 

TURN OFF THE TV...                                                                                          

and your phone, tablet, laptop, etc, etc. Research shows that these devices used late in the evening can actually disrupt our sleep patterns so it's a good idea to close them down at least an hour or so before you go to bed. Plus you don't want your relaxation evening being interrupted by your phone pinging every few minutes.

 

SOAK IN AN AROMATHERAPY BATH

A warm, soothing bath with the sublime scents of your chosen aromatherapy blend can be incredibly relaxing.

Essential oils can be great for treating all sorts of conditions and can be particularly effective for helping with feelings of stress, anxiety, tension and mental exhaustion. Lavender, roman chamomile, frankincense and ylang ylang are all good oils to use for some gentle relaxation.  Or why not ask an aromatherapist to make you up your very own personalised bath oil blend? This is a service I'm always very happy to provide to my clients.

The trick to an aromatherapy bath is to make sure the oils disperse in the water so instead of dropping them straight into the bath, you need to first mix them with a few teaspoons of full fat milk to help them break up. Essential oils are very strong and for a bath you really only need 7 or 8 drops of your chosen oil blend.  

As this is for relaxation don’t be tempted to flick through magazines, go through your mental to-do list or start streaming repeats of Strictly (just me? oh, ok). Instead try closing your eyes and simply letting yourself relax or quietly focus on the sound and sensation of your breath.

Note: As with all use of essential oils, there are some safety precautions to consider. Essential oils are extremely strong and should NEVER be applied neat to the skin or taken internally unless advised by a fully qualified aromatherapist or health professional. If you have sensitive skin it's a good idea to perform a patch test with your chosen oils, making sure they're  properly diluted in a base oil. If there's no reaction after 24 hours then you can safely use the oils.

If you are pregnant or have underlying health issues it's always a good idea to seek the advice of a qualified aromatherapist to find out which oils are suitable or even speak to your GP for advice. Extra precautions should be used when treating the elderly or the very young. Once again, it's best to get advice on the most suitable oils to choose.

 

BREATHE  

Ok, so the chances are you do quite a bit of this already but by using some simple breathing techniques you can really help to increase your feelings of calm and well-being and reduce any stress and anxiety. Here's an easy technique you can use just about anywhere: 

·         Stand, sit well-supported in a chair or lie down on the floor or bed. Make yourself comfortable and loosen any tight clothing if possible.

·         Take a deep, easy breath in, letting the breath flow deep into your abdomen then gently breathe out again. You could try placing your hands gently on your stomach and feel it expand as you breathe in then contract as you breathe out. To begin with, try breathing in to the count of 4 then breathing out, once again to the count of 4. You may not manage the full count at first but with regular practice you will find it gets easier.  In time you may be able to extend this so you're breathing in for a count of 7 and out for a count of 11.

·         Continue for around 3 to 5 minutes, focusing on the feel and rhythm of your breath. 

·         For best results use this exercise on a daily basis.

Note: If you're not used to breathing into the abdomen you may feel a bit lightheaded when you first use this technique. If this happens just  stop and return to your normal breathing pattern. With regular practice you'll find it much easier.

 

USE YOUR IMAGINATION

Your own imagination is an amazing thing and by using it to conjure up a place where you feel safe, calm and at peace you can really help yourself to feel deeply relaxed.  

There are all manner of guided visualisation and guided imagery scripts available to help you. You can find loads of free downloads and printouts online or you can purchase whole collections on CD or as downloads. 

 

RELAX TO MUSIC

"Music influences respiratory rate, blood pressure, stomach contractions, and the level of stress hormones in the blood," according to David Sobel, M.D. Director of Preventive Medicine at Kaiser Permenente, the world's Largest HMO.

There are all kinds of relaxation music available so try a few different kinds to find what works best for you. A soundtrack that is soft and unobtrusive works well for many people.

You could look out for meditation music, binaural beats tracks or even whale music - well you don't know until you try! Ultimately though, you're the best judge of what kind of soundtrack you find relaxing so go with your own personal preference.  

If you're feeling a bit stuck give this track a go to get you started: http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/listen-to-the-most-relaxing-song-ever-170097

 

So there you go - plenty of ideas to get you started on your journey of relaxation! Give some of them a go and see how they make you feel. I'd love to hear your feedback on what works for you.

Happy relaxing xx


I am the founder and owner of Calme Therapies, based in Colchester, Essex. I am a qualified aromatherapist, massage therapist and relaxation therapist and I specialise in working with clients suffering from stress and tension.

If you would like to find out more, make an enquiry or book a treatment please contact me.